Marriage and Compatibility
A better way to find the compatibility for a couples How to give baby a lucky Name
Many Chinese Astrology websites give people the marriage
advice by using Year's Branch Fighting Relationship on
the left. They say that a person was born in the year of Rat (1) should avoid to try on
the opposite sex who was born on the year of Horse (7). The pairs shouldn't be together
are Rat (1) and Horse (7), Cow (2) and Sheep (8), Tiger (3) and Monkey (9), Rabbit (4) and
Chicken (10), Dragon (5) and Dog (11) plus Snake (6) and Pig (12). In the other words,
that's not a good compatibility for those who have six year difference in their ages. None of Chinese professional fortune-tellers will
use this way to determine the compatibility for a couples. They know that six-year
difference impacts the compatibility only about 10%. Every fortune-telling book says that "please
don't use six-year difference to destroy a good marriage". With limited information, this website still can show you a way to find
the compatibility of a couples. Besides the Branch Fighting relationship, we need to know the Stem relationship. (Stems are Yin and Yang of Five elements) The poor
compatibility pairs are Yang Wood (1) and Yang Metal (7), Yin Wood (2) and Yin Metal (8),
Yang Fire (3) and Yang Water (9) plus Yin Fire (4) and Yin Water (10). You can see the difference between two elements is six, too. This first step to know the compatibility, you have to print out the birth charts for a
couples from the Chinese Fortune-Telling Calendar page with the
birth information. After printing out the birth charts, we want to check the compatibility
from Day, Month, Hour to Year. (Ancient Chinese Astrology considered the husband and wife
must be a man and a women.)
Compatibility Checking In Birth Chart, DAY Stem represents the person. DAY Branch represents the
spouse. MONTH Stem and Branch represent the parents. HOUR Stem and Branch represent
the children. We can see the most important Stem-Branch is DAY. The Second Step for the compatibility is to compare all Stems and Branches
in the same position of both birth charts and check it in the following table, if
they have the fighting relationship. The last step is to click the 'Calculate'
button to get the POOR compatibility score. The way we show here is only based on the
relationship. Some cases the Fighting relationship will decreased with the
relationship between Stems or Branches. It's OK for a couples with less than 33 poor compatibility score, because
it's very hard to find the perfect person. When the poor compatibility score of a couples
is higher than 45, they should understand more before considering the marriage. If they
get along pretty well with a higher poor score, they should verify the information
of their birthday and time or let the professional fortune-tellers read their birth
charts. If a couple with a higher poor compatibility score, they still want to get
married. They should make sure they are mature enough for marriage. For most cases, they
have better wait after age 30. Those people should have a late marriage (after age 30), if the Day Branch
and
Month Branch fight each other or Day Branch
and Hour Branch fight each other. Many cases,
they will have second marriage, if they want an early marriage. There still are some other ways to determine the compatibility. For
example, the year of Green Cow and the
year of White Horse are considered not a
good pair. This is one of separating relationship
between Branches. You cannot get this information from this website
and but you can have it from the PC Fortune Angel Software. |